Archive | March, 2016

Full-Time, All-The-Time & On-Time!

30 Mar

   

 A Mother is what I am everyday all day. When I wake up in the morning and throughout my day. I discovered this truth by how much I think of my son. While he is with me and when he’s not. As much as I think of him, I pray for him. To me, it is a joy, an honor to pray for another human being as much as I do for him. I never take prayer for granted or lightly. I’m specific when I talk to God. Furthermore, God expects my prayer. At some point in my life I looked around and saw that a lot of women who are mothers, are frustrated. So early on in my Motherhood I prayed to God telling Him that I don’t want to be a tired, bitter, frustrated ‘Single Mother.’ That I didn’t want to be the kind of mother taking her child/children for granted. And my eyes were opened. Prayer for some things have to be prayed early. God granted me perspective to see what was going on around me and helped me to pray myself through & around something I could have very well become. Before I knew what direction my life was headed. 

While some women choose their careers over being with their children & at home, I have the option to do the same. Still in my research & evidence, nothing is more important than my being open and available for my son. To maintain our strong connection requires prayer, sacrifice & a continual belief in God. It is constant & can be hard work. 

Nothing compares to the results that I get from this position in my life. This is work that never ends. A position that I am always required to grow & I am always being promoted in. 

Like all positions/jobs/roles I’ve held, I excel. Being mommy is the only reward I see. The only one that I need. Everything else doesn’t matter. 

  
My job is being a Mother to my son. I’m the only one in this position, with this title and there is no one else who can fulfill this position but me. I’ve been chosen. I’ve been appointed. 24/7, I am a mother always working & thinking about the betterment of my son & his mother. 

Currently I am a single mother. Which I love. With God helping me & directing me. Despite some changes I’ve been through, my life feels perfect for me. Even though it isn’t perfect. Who else is celebrating being single 7 years and could live the rest of their lives that way, happily? I love what I have going on with God and I know he’s nowhere near finished. 

I also know that God can send a physical person to be of representation for Him. In my son’s life. This is the only kind of person I will accept in my life as a husband, that can then be good enough to be a Father/Daddy, a mentor & positive male role model to a special little boy. 

When my son is with his biological father, I see it as a season. A growth & strengthening season for both my son & I. He’s had to endure so much including heartache because of his father’s decisions. He has never been my husband. The day that I realized this was the same day my son was born. It was if blinders had been removed from my eyes. Despite life, I never wonder about the miracles of God. I know there is always one in store. 

And I pray that the miracle that will be performed for Gods glory in our lives, will bless and draw this very special little boy, my son in his own free will & acknowledgement of God moving in his life & working on his behalf. Like he first was called at 3 years old. I imagine that as his Father, God will continually pursue a relationship with him. Constantly renewing their bond. 

Black Men.

I never keep resent in my heart for a male or man. Throughout my life & all that I’ve experienced because of men. After my son was born I realized that I can’t raise a black man with anger inside of me towards black men. I find that I go through a lot of disappointing situations or bad situations involving black men. I know now it is because the devil wants me so frustrated, mad, bitter & angry at black men so that I can’t raise the one God sent through me & gave me to raise to be the man God wants him to be. That goes against the prayer that I prayed early on. 

My role in my son’s life is more important than any other person in his life. I know that my relationship with my son is the most important relationship in his life. And I’ve had to fight for it. I’m always fighting! 

My position as a mother is the most important position I can ever have. God has entrusted me with brand new life. Completely innocent to the ways of the world. From day one I’ve been in prayer about him. That means I have to do, believe, pray & achieve God-sized things in my son’s life. We don’t have time for little things. Belittlers belittle because they haven’t experienced the Greatness of God. They have to go. We cannot be equally yoked with unbelievers. Family, friend or neighbor. Whoever is not for the purpose in between our lives is against it. 

God has been amazing to my son & I from day one. The way he had been keeping us & carrying us while we go through the pass ways of those who change their minds about us on a daily basis. Those who say they are for us and didn’t know until they realized that the “us” God has planned for His purpose doesn’t include them!

(People will try to get in the way, tear things apart or destroy it completely when they see Gods favor on you & not themselves.)

When my son was born I began to see the true colors of everyone that was around me. Every single person had attacked me & found ways to attack me pertaining to my son who is now & who was then an innocent child. For that I feel sorry for those individuals. God loves his little children. And if they knew how much He loves this one. 

My passion is for the victory in my son’s & my life. For praying for my son. Which reveals to me a greater & divine purpose for someone’s life.  This is my focus & work. 

It doesn’t matter what job I’ve worked, like in the past, no job will ever come before my son in my life or take precedence. I am his mother first & foremost. Like He always have, God will take care of the rest. *

“Faith without works is dead.” 

Girly ThingsπŸ’…πŸΎ

29 Mar

Make it seems like girls have it easier in life until they realize you work as hard as men if not harder! πŸ’ͺπŸ½πŸ’‹ 

I love being a girl. πŸ‘ΈπŸ½

  

    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
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Thou Shalt Not Cometh For Me……πŸ›¬

29 Mar

Unless I have sendeth for you! 😘

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😘 I might😘

   
   
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Lovers & Friends πŸ“½πŸŽ¬

29 Mar

When you’ve known him since you were a girl & he’s watched you grow into a woman. 

And he’s loved you the whole way. ❀️

   
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
 

#GOALSπŸ’‹

29 Mar

GOT ANY OF YOUR OWN?

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” Dreaming big & actually believing in it all day, everyday, is no easy job. Nor is it for the faint at heart. ”

-Veronica Michelle πŸ‘„

Girl Power πŸ’‹

29 Mar

   
    
    
    
  
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
 

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28 Mar

  

Bon Appetit! 🍽

22 Mar

To looking forward to an exciting exploration with food. 🍴
 

  My Salmon dinner I made for my son & I.   

  
 He enjoyed it! He’s my little food critic. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

   
I absolutely love grapefruit! 

 

   
Fettucine Alfredo & other dishes I’m looking forward to trying. 🍴

    
    
    
   
I’m always inspired by culinary movies with a great storyline. 

 
I’m glad that I can enjoy food and never look like I do. 🍽

How To Love A Stupid Man β€οΈπŸ’”β€οΈπŸ’”β€οΈπŸ’”β€οΈπŸ’”β€οΈπŸ’”β€οΈπŸ’”β€οΈπŸ’”β€οΈπŸ’”β€οΈπŸ’”πŸ’˜

21 Mar

Not every woman gets the well-behaved, charming, successful, good-looking fella. It is well written in history & evident in our present times, that there is such existence of a stupid man. In the event that you’ve endured heartbreak, struggle & pain from a man that you’ve only ever given love to, to survive this trying time you may need a survival kit list on how to properly love a stupid man. πŸ’—βœ”οΈ
> Get him gifts unexpectedly. Make sure those gifts are a dog collar & a dog bowl with his name on it. He must ‘eat out’ of it at all times. πŸ•
> Hire a private investigator to follow him around at all times.πŸ•΅ To work, to the bathroom and when he has to self-satisfy himself. πŸ‘‹πŸ½πŸ€“πŸ˜Š

> Mistreat him in the presence of company. Especially family so they’ll know you rule him & ask or wonder why he is being treated this way. And he’ll have to respond with the truth. πŸ—£πŸ‘ΉπŸ’©πŸ˜ˆ

> Make him serve you at all times! πŸ€“πŸ™πŸ½πŸ’†πŸ½πŸ·πŸ½πŸ•΄

> Have him form a prayer circle/meeting or club during game time and have him read the bible out loud. He is also to memorize the entire Holy Bible. β›ͺ️

> Make him babysit your cat and clean their litter boxes, feed them, bathe them (cats don’t like baths) and take them shopping for new cat clothes. Get pictures taken while at the pet store & make him post them to his Facebook page. 😻😺😽😸

> Slap, hit & punch him unexpectedly especially when he thinks things are good between you. πŸ€•πŸ˜’πŸ˜ͺ😷🀐😩

> Go the cemetery to visit his deceased. And take pictures/videos  while he interacts with the grave sight. Post them to social media. Direct the interaction if you have to, try to get him to cry or weep as it would be better for entertainment purposes. ⚰☠✝🎦

> Celebrate every holiday without inviting him to spend time with you and your family. He’s in love, even after he’s been stupid, and being alone will hurt him. Because he wants to be with you. πŸ’•πŸ’£πŸŒˆβš½οΈπŸπŸ‘”

> Plan an overly extravagant & expensive birthday party for your son (that he’s not the father of) that he will pay all of the expenses to. Make sure that he knows he’s not invited. πŸ€“πŸ’ͺπŸ½πŸ‘”πŸ‘—πŸ’„πŸ‘  

> To change things up a bit, plan a sexy evening for the two of you. Lie him in the bed, tie him down so that he can’t move (escape). Cover his entire body with the sweetest honey, put on your sexy lingerie and heels, with your hair done, nails, make-up and after he’s relaxed with his eyes closed & covered with a blindfold, gently place a block of wood between the insides of his ankles. (To reenact the scene from the movie, “Misery.” Take his cellphone, wallet & money tell him you’ll be back later. If he doesn’t want pain to be still and don’t get up. (He won’t be able to anyway). Cover his mouth so he can’t scream. πŸ™€πŸ€‘πŸ€“

He’ll think it’s a game if done right. Before you leave the room release 5 jars of bees that you bought & stored earlier before he got home. Who are now hungry for honey. (Make sure he’s not allergic to bees.)

Be sure to close the door so that the bees are only in the room with him. You can also leave a window open to that room, so that the bees will leave, eventually. πŸπŸπŸπŸπŸπŸπŸπŸπŸ―πŸ―πŸ―πŸ―πŸ―πŸ―πŸ―πŸ―πŸ˜πŸ€“

> If he’s rich spend all of his money. Without keeping track of what is spent. Spend nothing less than $10,000 at a time. (He thinks he’s a man because he has money. He must be tested to find out what he thinks of himself with no money. πŸ€‘πŸ¦πŸ’ΈπŸ’°πŸ’΅πŸ’³βœ¨πŸ’πŸ€”πŸ€“

> Put your used sanitary napkins in his car, briefcases, suit jackets, coats, everywhere. (Be sure to roll them up or leave them open, whichever you prefer.) Don’t cover them, you want the smell to escape. Especially when he’s around important business people. This is especially good for the man that is older, who won’t stop bothering you about relations everyday, even during your monthly. πŸ’‰πŸŒ‹πŸš¨πŸ˜‘πŸ€“

> Leave stamp prints of your vagina on all of his white shirts. This is best to do during your monthly. πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ‘”

Part one of the series on how to love a stupid, stoopπŸ’©id,  man. 

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WCW πŸ‘ 

16 Mar

Dedicated to my love of shoes!πŸ‘ πŸ‘ 

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